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(@khilna)
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Hi!

My birth details are as follows:
•TOB: 12 - 1 P.M.
•DOB: 31.10.84
•POB: Nairobi, Kenya

I am in Rahu maha-dasha and was told to wear an emerald ring on my right hand little finger and a diamond ring on right hand ring finger. Please advise if this will reduce negative rahu effects. And indeed will this help me up in my married life?

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Khilna



   
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(@srinivasa-temkar)
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Hi Khilna,

As per your birth detail provided by you, you have born on Wednesday shravana constellation 1st quadrant under Capricorn zodiac and ascendant.

Referring your horoscope you being negative attitude person being fickle minded / varying mindset person at the same time being arrogant, stubborn in nature. You wont be living happily with your family. And also having bad habits at the same time GOD fearing. As the sun is debilitated in your horoscope you will not stick to your words, you are a person who changes his words time by time. You will be very familiar with telling lie, and you will be more known as liar itself. Most of the time you will diverted towards injustice / illegal things and even your mindset will provoke you the same.

As per vimshottari you are running with rahu mahadasha from October 1999 till October 2017. I can see from last April 2011 you are very much disappointed and distracted and lost your complete patience due to the breakup in your relationship / affair. And you are finding allot of mental stress and i can see even you had suicidal tendency as well during this period. You are being more attracted towards spirituality due to heavyhearted situation running. I can assure you, that you will definitely come out of these mental agony after April this year 2014 i.e after next month. And some sort of relief and happiness after April this year till September 2016.

As per your present planetary transition you are finding huge financial incapability from last year may, which should materialize and you start finding a right partner and good financial stability after this mid of June 2014.

I can't understand who prescribed you like if you wear diamond and emerald you can reduce rahu's effect? Before advising your any gemstone can you please tell me for what purpose you want to go for gem therapy?

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar



   
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(@khilna)
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Dear Mr Srinivasa,

Everything you have written so far is 100% correct. I got married last year March 2nd 2013. It has been a very difficult marriage with allot of physical and emotional abuse. I have been kicked out of the house by my husband and his mother; and have also gotten fed up of being mistreated and left the matrimonial home many times only for my husband to come apologize and convince me to go back and stay with his parents promising to change. I am at my last straw now and have been offered a house by my workplace as they have seen the wounds on my face. I know if I leave now, this will be the end of the marriage. I went to see a local mahraj, he said emerald will give me luck and diamond for clarity of mind and focus. He also said that I will suffer allot in my matrimonial home from May 2014 to March2015 and only the diamond and emerald can help.

Also my friend has read your post as well and she says what ever you have written about me is true; her name is Shaziya and she was born in Nairobi (Kenya) on Jan 23, 1986. She has also gone through a divorce and is struggling to find a suitable life partner. Her time of birth is 12 P.M.

Please help us!



   
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(@khilna)
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My husband birth details is as follows:
•TOB: 10 A.M.
•DOB: 5.11.1972
•POB: Nairobi, Kenya

I know shani is affecting him and he has also had a divorce before our marriage and had been in many relationships before he met me. This is my first marriage.

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Khilna



   
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Hi Khilna,

Please do mention your names and gender, if not it will be tough for me to identify whether the questioner is male or female, i though you were a male. However it doesn't change anything in my predictions so far.

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar



   
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(@khilna)
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Dear Srinivasa,

•My name is Khilna - female.
•My husbands name is Rupesh - male.
•My friend is Shaziya - female.

Thanks and God Bless!



   
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Dear Khilna,

Are you comfortable in following some rahu remedies, which are followed mostly by hindus?

It will be like meditating few beeja mantras related to planets, which will directly control the effects of evil planets. If not I would suggest you different remedies.

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar



   
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(@khilna)
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Dear Srinivasa,

Yes, I am Hindu so that is OK. I have already started doing one mala (108 times) mantra of Om Rahave Namah and the gayatri mantra 24 times a day as well as chanting of hanuman chalisa

Thanks
Khilna



   
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Dear Khilna,

As i have mentioned earlier these present situation will stay up to October 2017. However there will be improvement and you will again join your husband after this 14th next month. Its good that you have started to chant rahu mantra. However along with that please start chanting below mantra facing north-west direction sitting on a wooden platform in padmasan position if you can't sit normally as you sit, keep in mind that none of your body parts should touch the ground while doing meditation.

OM BRHAAM BRHEEM BRHOUM SHA RAHAVE NAMAHA!!! FOR LEAST 4 TIMES and maximum 40 times.after evening 6.30pm

OM DRAAM DREEM DROUM SHA SHUKRAYA NAMAHA!!! FOR 6 TIMES AND MAX 33 TIMES.FACING EAST. after evening 6.30pm.

As you are having sarpa dosha carried forward from your last birth, you will be having unhappiness in your married life along with you find tough times having kids / only have female kids only no male kid.

By any chance are you visiting India?

Answer my question

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar



   
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(@khilna)
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Srinivasa,

Thanks for your help, I will have to figure out where North west and east positions are from my house but I shall start chanting them from today if possible. Is sarpa Dosha my bad Karma carried over my last life? Does that mean as long as am married I will suffer? So should i just move on with my life alone and divorce? Can you have a look at his horoscope for me too please.

I was meant to come to India in August with my husband... but now am not so sure if that will happen.

Regards
Khilna



   
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Dear Khilna,

As per your husband's birth details provided by you, he has born on Sunday, swati constellation 2nd quadrant, Libra zodiac and Sagittarius as ascendant.

As per his natal chart, he is been misjudged by many people as he been seen as very innocent person,indeed he is not at all. He being dual minded person, every time eager to fight. He is an arrogant in nature, wicked minded / cruel minded. Most of the time doubtful in nature about you. I can see even he is not good at studies concerned. And most of the time he uses his brain to please bad friendships / relationship. And he uses his intelligence to provoke opposite sex / woman to drag her to his bed and enjoy bed pleasures. Frankly speaking he involves in more irreligious things / acts. Goodness is that in his natal chart shukra being debilitated, due to which is not been male prosecutor / male sex worker. I can see he is having many affairs, even now after marriage its running. He has illegal relationships / affairs running parallel as well and due to which he wants to leave you now.

As per vimshottari from last year may 2013 he is in relationship / affair with two other women and am sure they will ditch him after June this year 2014.

As per planetary transit he is running with sade sati from last 6.75 years and will end up after this November 2014. And from last 25th December 2012 you would see changes in his attitudes as he was involving in making friendships with females. and this will end up after July this year 2014.

GOD BLESS!!!
Srinivasa Temkar



   
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Dear Khilna,

I know you would had this relationship as love marriage and that too during rahu dasha. After seeing your both compatibility it doesn't match. Reason being you ar both from same naadi, which is Antya naadi. As per astrology if both naadi remains same you are not suppose to do marriage, as it signifies physical compatibility. And strictly speaking if both naadi are same they will be termed as brother and sister as per astrology. I know few of the astrologers will ignore this, however in compatibility this is the top scorer point / aspect.

I would suggest you is get away from him. Its harsh i know however he never gonna change in his behavior. And you will come out of him after October 2017.

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar



   
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(@khilna)
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Srinivasa

I have been having a feeling he has something else going on with other women for a while because he was being extra nice buying me expensive things all of a sudden. When you say I will be out of him by 2017 does that mean my divorce will finalize or that it will take me until then to get over him? Is there any happy stable marriage in my future?

Thanks
Khilna



   
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Dear Khilna,

Am i right with my prediction about your husband? Yes you will get out of this relationship only after October 2017 and if you get divorce before this, please don't go for any other relationship till this time. There are more chances of again you loving a wrong person during this time. So be neutral till October 2017, after October 2017 automatically you will find an very good, average build, fair looking, mostly from the management or accounts or software industry. You have to withstand him till 2017. Yes he is in affair from said time above.

GOD BLESS!!!

Srinivasa Temkar



   
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(@khilna)
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Dear Srinivasa,

Yes you are right! My instincts have been telling me since January this year that there is something he has been hiding and he has been overly nice to me by keeping me occupied with expensive gifts which the whole of our married and dating life he would never buy for me. I have tried to catch him with his phone and so forth but I never can. he is too smart with technology and hiding things. He says that he will ruin me if i leave him and use all of his money to spoil my life - as he is quite well off. But these are just scare tactics (I hope). I feel his first wife and all his previous relationships ended due to his violent nature and fights. I pray that God pays him back for all that he has put me and other girls through and that he never gets married again!!!

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Khilna



   
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